Happy New Year!
As many people do, I thought I'd reflect on the past year and list some of the things I got up to. I've sure jammed quite a bit into 12 months! There have been some great experiences and some sad ones, but overall I think it's an impressive list (if I do say so myself).
When I started thinking about this list I was feeling a little down in the dumps. Moving to South Africa has proved to be one of the most difficult things I've ever done. So I wasn't exactly looking back with rose tinted glasses. But after thinking about all the exciting things - the happy and oh-so privileged things - I got up to (and my reasons for coming here), it really was a year worth living. It was much more balanced and blessed than I originally thought.
In no particular order, in 2012 I...:
Moved continents (again)
Set foot in 5 countries (Canada, UK, USA, SA, and Lesoeto)
Started horse back riding (again)
Started a business
Went tubing, and swimming, and dipped my whole self in the South Atlantic Ocean
Learned how to drive on the wrong side of the road
Made friends with African Traders at Rosebank
Taught the dog how to 'Shake A Paw', 'Speak', and 'Sit Pretty' (even though she can't balance on her own...)
Got fit and healthy
Quit a job I did not like
Got a permit to live in SA (Oh but not to work...)
Fell in love with Cape Town
Missed my family a ton
Got to see them for a fantastic visit in March / April
FaceTime (and excitedly) welcomed the long awaited arrival of the wonderful Marcel (son of Steph and Andrew)
Learned a little Greek (Xronia Polla!)
Had my iPhone stolen
Had my lost wallet returned
Celebrated the marriages of Chris and Tina and Andrew and Stacey
Had the best B&B experience of my LIFE
Got a tan in December
Got my complete damage deposit back from UK estate agents
Rang in the New Year from the Drakensberg Mountains horse-back riding across mountain tops
I'm sure I've missed a few things, but when I think of the year like that, it sure has been eventful and busy. I'm going to start keeping a list from the beginning of the year that will include some of my goals for this year, and some of the things I've accomplished or experienced. In an effort to be more positive it's helpful for me to have something I can look at that reminds me (in black and white) that it hasn't all been difficult. I'm starting to look at it like climbing a mountain - I sometimes get so focused on getting to the top all I can feel is the pain and aches along the way. I often forget about those breathtaking moments when you stop halfway to rest and recuperate. If you take a moment and look around it's pretty amazing what the world has in store for you.
xx
Niki
The Adventures of Niki
The best and worst of what Africa has to offer, from the mind of a Canadian Expat.
Monday 18 March 2013
Thursday 6 December 2012
The Answer... The Need... And Hal
The Actual Home Affairs where it all took place |
Ah, Home Affairs… No matter how Westernized Joburg feels (and it
does with it’s traffic and malls and Soap Operas – check out 'Isidingo: The Need', it’s a
trip) you realize you’re in Africa the moment you need to renew your driver’s license,
register a baby’s birth or want to stay in SA, like me!
After our last trip to apply for the permit I was dreading
going back. Particularly because I
was expecting to be denied, and told I filled out one of the forms incorrectly. Because I did fill one of the forms out
incorrectly. According to said
form I am single/divorced AND widowed, but am pretty sure I SHOULD be one or
the other, not all three (although technically you could be all three, so now
I’m really confused about the 'right' answer). Anyways, I think I was supposed to cross two options out and
leave my current marital status.
Oops?
So we got the text after 6 months of waiting saying that
'they' had reached an answer and we could proceed to the Home Affairs office in 5
working days. I figured I should
check first, to make sure the paperwork is there and ready, before going
through the hectic process of collecting the permit. So we waited, and called
and decided to wait some more for good measure. I thought that the ‘Africa
Time’ Rule of Thumb probably applied here (meaning take the original ‘suggested’
time and times by 5, then divide by 2, then find out the time you were given
actually had nothing to do with your situation and get a new correct time which
you still times by 4 and divide by 2 - if you're an optimist - to get the actual time you should wait before you assume
it’s been long enough) so we waited an additional 2 months before we called our
‘friend’ and asked to put our name on the list for the following morning. That’s what I love about
Africa. Everything just makes
sense. Side note: We verified this equation with our friend and he confirmed we were spot on! Side note 2: It's a dangerous game, this math. Let me tell you that the possibility of your paperwork going missing increases exponentially the longer you wait. It's like gambling. Kinda fun, but kinda scary. Side note 3: Sparkly pens!
So we show up at Home Affairs and RESULT! We are 4th on the waiting list. Even though there is a written list
people still line up. But not in
list order - just to add to the general confusion people line up in random
order. We get in line anyways,
just in case it means something, but also out of solidarity for those who think
the line/cue system will work (hopeful fools). Even though we are 4th on the list, we are
actually 14th in line.
Not numerically a big difference, but it could mean 6 hours of
additional waiting. You just don’t know.
After a few hours of pondering our predicament Home Affairs Lady (H.A.L.
or Hal as I fondly remember her) comes out of the residential building and
starts collecting the submission forms from our line. We give the form to her and expect to be taken up to the
office in small groups for The Answer (*ominous music*). But she takes the forms from all 302
people waiting and leaves without us, locking the gate behind her. We wait, and wait, and wait. This is not the same process we saw
before when we were jealously watching the Collections Line from the
Submissions Line. But that’s
hardly surprising. I get the
feeling that South Africans like to mix it up a bit, you know, keep customers
on their toes.
Hal Arrives |
Finally there’s
some movement at the gate. It’s
Hal! But everyone is just crowing forward, pressing into the lobby of the
residential building. I
panic! This is not going to
work! We’ll never get to the front
of the line and our careful planning will all be for nothing. NOTHING! Wait…That
means we’ll have to COME BACK?!’.
Then, like the veteran of the London transport system I am, I mentally
slap myself out of the injustice induced shock, and sprint between the slow
amble of the African mob to get myself within shouting distance of Hal, now
standing there like a dictator on the stairs with her box of forms and answers.
She starts calling out a name, shouting it over and over,
everyone craning their necks to see who among us will have an answer at last. A hand tentatively goes up. It is
Mdabi! Mdabi has an answer! ‘REJECTED! No Passport.’ Hal shouts in a cold and kinda mean voice. ‘Ohhhhh’ the crowd murmurs,
‘Does that means he didn’t have his passport when he submitted, or he doesn’t
get the passport he was applying for?’ I ponder. I’m sweating now.
I am going to get a ‘NO!’ in front of all these people. ‘How embarrassing’ I think, my small Canadian need for privacy shuddering.
Name after name is called with ‘Rejected!’ following every one. It’s actually a pretty smart way to
control the influx of immigrants - Just reject them all, and give a one word
ambiguous answer that they can’t question without taking their lives in their
hands and possibly being attacked by the white eyed crowd.
Then something different happens. Hal calls out a name, that person quietly sobbing, but this time Hal holds her hand out, as if expecting a tip, or payoff in front of the whole
crowd (corruption!!). Everyone is confused but from the back someone yells out ‘Your
passport – give her your passport!’. And the passport is passed, hand over
hand to the front and up the stairs, where Hal puts a green sticker
inside. Yay! Maybe we’re through
all the rejections! Then she calls out ‘Nicole Berry!’ but like ‘NeeCol Berrrrrry’
and she roles the ‘rrrs’ so that I barely recognized my own name. I hope she’s through the
rejections!
And then, just like in ‘The Creation
Of Adam’, her hand extends through a ray of sunshine, fingers
outstretched like she’s looking for money!
I throw my passport to her and turn to give an excited ‘I
got it! I actually GOT it!’ to the
small, old woman I nearly trampled to get towards the front of the cue. She doesn’t hold it against me though because
she’s awesome. She could be my new
BFF, my South African BFF now that I can stay in the country for another 2
years! My passport makes it back
to me, Permit stickered inside.
What a moment.
As much as I keep saying ‘In Canada, we’ve got this
paperwork/bureaucracy stuff all figured out – it’s so easy, takes like 5 minutes.’, I do realize that if this had been Canada, they
would have caught the mistake and i would have been denied.
So here’s a photo of me and Pete and my new Permit (valid
until June 2012, so it’s not the full two years and we’ll have to reapply a bit
sooner than I thought). You can
see in the photo how stressed (and tired and lopsided face) I was because the tendons in my neck won’t
relax. Their still kinda like that
now and I’m a bit worried they will stay that way. But it was worth it in the end.
Note: I've embellished a few small details. Its what I do. :)
xox
Monday 19 November 2012
Drag Queens, Driving and Design
These beautiful vines are everywhere. I want to know what they are so I can get some, even if they turn out to be weed |
A proud business owner! |
The baking has to stop. Now. |
I’ve been a bit late in putting a blog entry together, but I
have a good reason. I’ve started a
business (yay!). Not that I
thought I would be fine with sitting around for too long – I was pretty sure
I’d get bored of being unemployed pretty quickly and end up getting into
trouble. You know, like baking
every day (and eating the results), shopping a lot, or obsessively doing
housework (haha, as if). I started
looking for something creative to do here in Joburg, and without a ceramics
studio I had to get creative about what I could create…. I started out with Paper
Mache (don’t we all?) and the great idea that I could make lanterns from string
and paper (thanks Pinterest!) and sell them at a local market. Fail. I learned some great things in that first week of making:
Aziza our dog is a big part of my business |
1) Pete will always say something nice about anything I
create (‘Wow – look at that!’)
2) If you read between the lines you can understand what
he’s really saying (‘Wow – you actually think someone would pay for that?’).
3) Great creative ideas take time to develop and if you answer
yes to the question ‘Does this
look like it was made in a kindergarden class?’, you need to scrap it and start
again.
Pintrest said it would be easy... |
Shweshwe |
Eventually, the cat-vomit-like the balls of string and paper
evolved into a structure made of wood and fabric, and grew into 4 different
sizes. Getting inspiration from
the Shweshwe fabrics prevelant in SA was great – they have lovely,
colourful patterns and work well with the rustic feel of the wood. I sorted through the various product
problems that arose, including ‘How can I make this lantern safe to use with
candles, so that even the least fire safe individual can operate them without
burning the house down?’ They say ‘there’s no such thing as bad press’, but I
was pretty sure that a burned down house would be bad press. So I found a great flame retardant and
got on with it.
I finally had something I could proudly put my name on. And I did: www.nikiberry.com, Internet home of Niki
Berry Design.
We got into Rosebank Rooftop Sunday Market (which is
fantastic) and have Parkview Charity Christmas Market coming up. You can read
all about it on Facebook. We also have a few retail options in the works. It’s nice to have people appreciate all your blood, sweat and tears –
and believe me, I have given all these things to the lantern gods. Including a ‘too gross for the internet
story’ (yes there is such a thing) abut a splinter getting lost in my finger
(my body eventually won). Eww!
Anyways, that’s a short update about what I’ve been up to
lately. Now here’s a few more
things that go back a few months. Everyone loves a photo set! |
The reason for the horrible morning after |
Madam Zingara’s
Pete’s cousin Alex was raving about this
crazy dinner and a show that you can go to at Monte Casino. She said it was so great and we had to
go. I wasn’t sure what to make of
it – it sounded cool, but Alex likes a lot of things, so you never know what
you’re in store for… Jokes – Alex has great taste in all things so we knew it
was going to be a treat. And it
was. It was this cool dinner and
drinks in this great old carnival tent with performers, like drag queens and
hoolahhoop girls and a bathtub dancer (which I don’t even know how you get into
because dancing in the bathtub was a definite nono in my house, for good
reason), and you get all dressed up and can buy neat old stylish hats and wow I
just had the BEST TIME! Until I
woke up the next day and realized that I lost my wallet. In Johannesburg. Plus I was a little hung over so it was
the worst follow up to a great night I’ve had in a long time. And it was Sunday so no one was working
to tell me if anyone (an angel) turned in my wallet (that my best friend Steph
gave me which I LOVED, and had my Canadian drivers license, and UK bankcard
which they WILL NOT replace by post).
So I had to wait until Monday to find out that the angel was our waiter,
who found it and handed it in to the floor manager, who actually kept it for me
AND gave it back Tuesday. Crazy.
Lucky.
My First Big Fat Greek Wedding
Pete’s good friend Alexia
had a wedding at an absolutely fabulous venue Summer Place, which rumour has it, was
originally owned by a Mobster who used a fountain / pool for real champagne. It was a beautiful
wedding, great people, awesome food and these little bites of wonderfulness
flown in from Cypress, called Koufeta. But these weren’t just any Koufeta –
these were covered in flavoured chocolate under the candy shell, flavours like Cappuccino, coconut, orange and more!
So. Good.
Some of the cool things you can see when you drive! |
Driving
I’ve been driving more and more and think I’m finally over
the fear. I realized that I was
working myself up over a small deal.
My fear came from how busy the roads are – really hectic during rush
hour, and the fact that you're on the other side of the road (all that emergency driving training could kick in and put me on the wrong side of a bad situation! Literally). But, since everyone drives here (kids, visually impaired people, dogs...),
you see a lot of 90 year old people getting around just fine. So I thought, ‘I’m not going to get
shown up by little old ladies – I can DO this!!’. So I’m starting with shorter
trips on my own, and building up. I did a
little running around the other day and just kept thinking ‘I feel so
NORMAL!’. Was really nice.
Lots more to talk about, but that’s what happens when you don't update your blog regularly.
PS – I got my Life Partners Permit. It was another fantastic example of
African culture, so you won’t be disappointed with my next blog.
Friday 27 July 2012
Home Affairs – Putting The Africa Back In South Africa
25 easy steps to getting a temporary residency permit in
South Africa: Life Partner Permit
Sorry for the long delay - I've been busy starting a business. I'll write more about that later. For now to catch you up on the long awaited Visit To Home Affairs... Du Du Duhhhhh.
What can I say about Home Affairs? People warned me it would be an experience to remember and they did not disappoint.
What can I say about Home Affairs? People warned me it would be an experience to remember and they did not disappoint.
You go to Home Affairs to deal with ‘affairs’ of the ‘Home’
country, in this case South Africa.
If you need a Drivers License, Work Permit, Marriage / Divorce
Certificate, or as in my case a Life Partner Permit (which allows me to live here and work here if I have the proper documents / job offer...), you need to spend some
time at Home Affairs. Now in most
countries you would go to these official offices and pick up the relevant
forms, gather your paperwork and stand in line or take a number. Once your number is called you submit
said documents to the official looking person sitting behind the counter. That person might not always be
friendly, but they usually know their stuff.
T.I.A. (This Is Africa) is a saying that a lot of people use
when dealing with things that just don’t seem to work properly. Like going to
Home Affairs. For a government
organization it’s about as unorganized and confused as you can get. Actually I can’t say it’s unorganized
as there IS a weird, mixed up, chaotic organization to it all, you just have to
figure it out for yourself, each painful step of the way.
Here, I will outline the process as experienced by me, as a
record for those who need to go through it, for family and friends interested
in the small, hilarious differences between our respective countries, but
mostly it’s for my own reference for the next time I have to go (joy!).
Hopefully it will make it an easier process for anyone who has to go through it
as well.
25 Simple Steps To Getting Your Life Partner Permit
1.
Go to nearest Home Affairs Branch and look for
the information counter to get any relevant forms and find out pertinent
information. It's important to note that you might not be looking for a regular Government Office Building. It could be a convenience store, residential building, or farm.
2.
Find the information desk is vacant (doesn’t
look like anyone has sat in that seat for a few years) and wait for half an
hour before someone takes pity on you and directs you to jump the queue (scary
when you’ve lived in London where people lose their lives for that) and get the
information you need. Also the
slots that contain the forms you need is empty, not a scrap of paper left.
3.
Jump the queue after half an hour of pondering
which one of the 50 people in front of you is the likeliest to cause you bodily
harm (it’s always the ones you don’t suspect so I kept my eye on the old lady
with the twin babies strapped to her back).
4.
Ask the person behind the counter all your
questions, or try to over the other people yelling questions, one of which
seems to have taken issue with the fact that they’ve lost her passport.
5.
Leave only knowing that this branch doesn’t deal
with the permit you need and you need to go to Johannesburg Central (a
particularly dodgy part of town that most people would rather avoid) or
Pretoria (town about 1hr out of JoBurg).
6.
Make a few calls to the Home Affairs Helpline
who tell you that you can’t submit at Pretoria like you were told, but you can
submit the paperwork at a different office in Germiston. They are helpful in
telling you exactly what you need, but can’t offer specific guidance on the
forms. For that you have to call
the Germiston Office, so they give you their number.
FYI-What
you need to submit a Life Partner Permit:
-Application Form
-Affidavit Confirming
Life Partnership (must be notarized)
-Letter confirming the SA Citizen
will support the applicant -both financially and emotionally (also notarized)
-3 Months of Bank
Statements from the SA Citizen
-Medical certificate signed by a Dr.
and not older than 3 months, stating the applicant is in good health and not
crazy
-Radiology Report not older than 3
months, stating the applicant doesn’t have Tuberculosis
-Police Clearance from your home
country stating you aren’t a criminal
-Proof of
co-habitation before coming to SA
-Proof of mutual support before
coming to SA (ie bank transfers, payments etc)
7.
Try without luck to get through to the Germiston
office for 5 days, calling every 30 mins
8.
Finally decide to take your paperwork to the Germiston
office and find out if you have everything in order when you submit
9.
Arrive to a relatively calm office with a
variety of queues and no signage directing which one you need to be in.
10. Friendly
man tells you that you will need passport photos and he can do these for you
outside for cheap ('Sharp Sharp!'). Go with the man
to a small tent outside where he does your passport photos while you wait – so
handy!
11. Find
out later that apparently you do not need passport photos…
12. Wait
in line at the information desk, which thankfully has someone working there,
where various people jump the queue but after 30 minutes you finally get to the
front. The line you are directed
to is actually in another office, luckily just around the corner and upstairs
13. Go
to what appears to be an apartment block… Like where people live… and go up to
the first floor, no try to get up to the first floor because there are people (Queuing?
Loitering? Giving birth?). Stand awkwardly for a bit, then push through until
the resistance from the crowd tells you that you’re finally at the back of the
queue.
Home Affairs Germiston - Yes! It's also a residential building! |
15. Realize
that you don’t know the rules of organization and will probably die in the
line.
16. Make
a friend. South Africa is a great place for making friends. If you want anything done you have to make friends! Ours was a tenant of the
building who ‘knew some people’ and said he would find out what we needed to
do. Much better than the ‘friends’ outside who want you to give them your
passport, paperwork, and R1200, so essentially your complete Identity and small
savings account to boot, all wrapped up in a pretty package. They would submit your paperwork for you, promise.
17. Learn
the rules of organization: you have to be outside the office (apartment block)
at roughly 3am, where the security guard would post a paper outside the gate.
You have to write your name on the list, which would then be used when they
opened at 8am to sort out the order of who would be first in the office. Our
friend from the building actually offered to do this for us – nice gesture
considering he didn’t even hint that he wanted money for it. We took his offer
as neither of us could really bear the alternative. Also, Germiston didn’t seem that friendly during the day, so
I can only imagine what it was like at night.
18. Arrive
with time to spare (just in case) for the 8am opening to see a big crowd had
gathered. At the rate it takes
them to process one application, you realize that only about 1/3 of the people
will be seen during the opening hours (8am-3pm), which adds an element of excitement
and desperation to the morning air. Also anger for those who are just now
figuring out there’s a list and they are number 401.
19. Try
to keep it together (and air in your lungs) as the Home Affairs officer comes
down causing an illogical surge of people towards the door. Even though there’s
a list, he would like us to organize ourselves in two lines: Collections and
Submissions. Many people
don’t want to do this so he tells us he will come back at 9am to see if we’ve
sorted ourselves out. He ‘has all day, so (he’s) happy to wait’ (word for word,
no jokes). Many people are waving money at him and someone even waved their baby in his face - not sure if this was to go for a sympathy vote or perhaps a trade? Either way he wasn't budging. No corruption here!
20. Suggest
everyone do what he says which starts an open discussion as a collective group
about the best way to do it. The
simple suggestion that since everyone has written their names beside a number,
we should organize ourselves in that order is a bit too complicated and is met
with blank stares. Someone got all riled up behind me and spit (say it dont spray it!) in my face, so I was convinced I was going to get TB.
You've made it inside! But nobody works here! |
21. Eventually get called to the front of the group where we are escorted up to the locked room. There we stand in numerical order (Yay! North American need for order and systems almost satisfied.). The room is interesting, although sparsely decorated. There’s an SA flag, a few portraits of SA Officials, a counter for 2 officers to process paperwork (although only one is in use some of the time), and a few old looking signs. My favorite is the one that’s been printed with a printer from 1982 (with those little tear away guiding strips that you used to make little springy folded paper tubes with - come on, like you don't know what I'm talking about...) that says ‘Our computers are out of service, sorry for the inconvenience.’. Wait a minute - if your computers were broken then how did you.... Never mind. My second favorite is the one basically telling you to ‘make sure you have certified copies of all your paperwork in case it gets lost, and there’s a good possibility it will.’
23. Leave
feeling like you’ve just run a marathon: exhausted but very pleased with what
you’ve accomplished and full of dread for the Collections journey.
24. Realize
that one of the forms you submitted had a minor error and proceed to worry ‘Will
this affect the outcome?’ and
‘Will I have to do this all over again?’ for the next 9 months it will
take them to give you an answer. Exciting!
25. Wait
A little update since we’ve applied: It’s been a few months
now and WE GOT A TEXT! So the paperwork is somewhere in Pretoria. Will start harassing them weekly now
until we get our answer. Just in time too as my 3 month Common
Wealth visitor 'visa' just lapsed. Until
then, I just keep repeating my mantra: TIA, TIA, TIA…
Friday 25 May 2012
Art, R&R, and Culture in Clarens And Lesotho!
In my last entry I mentioned Clarens (Martini Class 101 reference). April 26th Peter’s mother Irene booked a trip to Clarens to celebrate our birthdays, which turned out to be a very nice gift indeed. Clarens is a small town, almost a village, who’s industry seems to centre around people looking for quiet weekends away from the neighboring cities of Durban and Johannesburg. It is very close to Lesotho (pronounced Lesootoo), which is a mountain kingdom (country in it’s own right) landlocked within South Africa’s borders.
Clarens is nestled in the foothills of a South African mountain range called the Maluti Mountains. Beautiful country, high altitude, with stunning views every way you look. The main part of town is centered around a square, with galleries, restaurants, pubs, and shops all facing the large grass expanse than sometimes hosts flea markets and events. Although the pubs and restaurants all have different atmospheres, they all seem to have similar Afrikaans fare with lots of meat (Oxtail, Pork Neck, Steaks) and a few oddly placed Indian dishes – odd because there doesn’t seem to be an Indian population in the area. The galleries have amazing paintings, ceramics, and some interesting African crafts. Overall it’s a very quaint little town and we enjoyed ourselves thoroughly.
Our B&B was lovely, located at the bottom of Clarens on a quiet street. The B&B owner Delyse, or Dee, was very attentive and friendly, and the breakfast was great every day (she warmed the plates which is a small detail but one that I appreciate to no end). The view from the B&B actually looked like a backdrop at certain times of day - it was stunning and could be enjoyed from a large well kept garden with a glass of complimentary sherry.
Our B&B was lovely, located at the bottom of Clarens on a quiet street. The B&B owner Delyse, or Dee, was very attentive and friendly, and the breakfast was great every day (she warmed the plates which is a small detail but one that I appreciate to no end). The view from the B&B actually looked like a backdrop at certain times of day - it was stunning and could be enjoyed from a large well kept garden with a glass of complimentary sherry.
Peter and Irene at our B&B in Clarens. No, it's not a backdrop, it's the real thing! |
A highlight of the trip was going across the boarders to Lesotho – such a great place to visit. I thought South Africa was Africa, until I went to Lesotho (in the best sense). We decided to play it safe and ensure we’d see everything we wanted with minimal hassle and booked a tour with Oliver Esplin (Ollie), the owner of ClarensXtreme. Such a good idea. Ollie was a fountain of knowledge on Lesotho culture, customs and roads, meaning we didn’t have to worry about where to go, or how to get there AND had pleasant, informative stories to accompany our journey.
The boarder crossing into Lesotho |
The day started with being collected from our B&B. We drove the short 20mins to the Ha Belo boarder crossing (I think – sorry if I got any of the names wrong here…), a relaxed boarder where we had to show our passport to the boarder guards of both countries, each sitting a short drive from each other, across a small river. Relatively easy and quick. We then drove through the western most part of the country on winding country roads (paved and pretty exceptional with one or two potholes), slowly going up in altitude.
We made our way to Liphofung Historical Site where you can see 5000 yr old Bushman Cave Drawings and learn a bit about the Lesotho history. Our guide, Mashoeshoe (also the name of the most famous Lesotho king who went to London to visit Queen Victoria but never got to see her – long story…) was very quiet and seemed a bit shy but was full of knowledge and had a good working relationship with Ollie. The drawings were done 5000 years ago by Sangoma, or traditional spiritual healers and depict their spiritual journeys, journeys accessed through the ritual hunting of an Eland (type of large Antelope about the size of a moose) in order to divine the answers to important questions from locals or whole villages. Very interesting information about the history of the people and the area as a historical site. It was also a very pretty hike down into the small valley containing the overhanging cliff where the drawings were found. This is another item I studied during my art history education that I can happily tick off as ‘Seen in Person’.
Our guide Mashoeshoe at the Bushman Cave Drawings Site |
Rinkhal snake is just to the right of the black pole... |
On the way up from the caves we saw a baby snake cross the path and hide in a concrete block just off the side of where we had to walk by. Ollie wanted to see what kind it was, so he moved the block (with a stick). We found out it was a Rinkhal, one of the only true spitting snakes in the world, and a relative of the Cobra, though not in a type of Cobra, and also about a meter long, so not a baby. Pretty poisonous but very non-aggressive. When we tried to get a better look it hissed, spread it’s head thingies and high-tailed it away from us. Cool but also a bit unnerving, as we would have been directly in it’s path had we been 5 steps further up the path.
It makes me look young, right? |
After this exciting encounter I’ll admit that it was hard to focus on the historical talk Mashoeshoe gave, but it was very interesting and I think everyone perked up when I asked about the marriage customs of the Lesotho (hey a girl has to know!). We went into a traditional hut where we learned more about the day to day customs. Pete was pretty intrigued as the Lesotho can often have 3 wives depending on finances. I was intrigued by the traditional head gear and got to try on the skirt a Lesotho girl under the age of 16 (so close!) would wear before marriage.
Most of the Lesotho are sheep, goat, and cattle herders with wealth increasing with the size and numbers of the animals. They wear traditional blankets, a garment that is earned and highly respected, with type of bottoms dependent on where you are in life. It is interesting to note that the Lesotho are a people with a lot of honor and pride. They are different from many Southern Africans in that they do not want to bring shame on their families – as a result the crime rates in Lesotho are minimal compared to any country, and non-existent compared to South Africa.
The scenery of Lesotho was amazing and the small city Butha-Buthe, pronounced 'Boota Boota' was what I can only describe as very African. It was more like the small African towns you see in the movies (shoddy stalls with music blaring, buildings constructed with corrugated steel, older concrete buildings all mixed together in a visually stimulating collage and peppered with lots of people). Never thought major companies like Vodafone would consent to stores made out of a bit of steel, rebar and plywood but if it works why not… Actually Pete tells me these might not be ‘authorized dealers’.
We had one last stop before leaving Lesotho and pulled over at a gas station. I’ll admit I was a little nervous because you could say we sort of stood out. But the people didn’t stare or seem intimidating. We stopped for a very good reason – Vetkoeks, pronounced 'FetCooks'. These are wonderful deep fried dough balls that went down a treat after trekking through a bit of Lesotho. What a great experience.
After getting back we had one more night to enjoy the town. Although we were pretty tired we decided to go out for a nice dinner at Hotel d’Or, which was great, including the interesting martini interpretation (anything for a good anecdote eh?).All in all a fantastic trip. A big thanks to Pete’s Mother and Yiayia for showing us an arty, laid back part of South Africa. We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves, potholes and all.
xx
Cool old car |
Cat that Peter fell in love with. It was reciprocated! |
Another amazing view in Clarens |
A female spiral aloe plant-girls spiral counter clockwise |
Ice cream and espresso. Yummy! |
Monday 30 April 2012
First Impressions: Johannesburg
So a bit of a long catch up to do after my first few weeks
living in Africa.
The journey from Canada was pretty epic, I’m not going to
lie. I thought that Vancouver to London was a big one, and it is. But add on a 6 hr layover and an 11 hr
flight, travel totaled 26hrs. I
was a zombie at London Heathrow, could only get coffee, sit, phone people,
stare into space. Missed out on some great duty free shopping but there are
worse things to miss.
I upgraded my flight to Johannesburg as well, which was
terrifying at the time but a god send after. It was sold to me as having a ‘slightly bigger seat’ for
189GBP (the terrifying part) but actually came with a few perks: a rest for
your feet, nicer headphones, first class meal (see pic of the actually great
meal they served). Best decision
ever after not having any sleep on the first flight. It was a nice second leg in all that luxury, and I slept for
about 6hr waking to the very first light of a lovely sunrise.
Sunrise over Central Africa April 12, 2012 |
After landing I was in a daze for a bit. I got hit by a
pretty bad cold, plus that lovely jet lag, which meant I slept for about 4 days
straight. I finally emerged from
my hibernation to the most beautiful autumn I’ve ever seen: Wake up to sunny,
clear blue skies, cold early but warming to a comfortable 18C; Beautiful fall
colours are mixed with the bright greens and bold colours of winter flowering
plants and trees; The odd shower happens, but it doesn’t last and clears to
warmth again; the evenings are crisp and cool, with darkness descending on the
city surprisingly quickly.
Stunning. Spent a lovely Easter Sunday having a brai (BBQ) with Pete’s
family, hosted by his Aunt and Uncle.
Again, note the lovely weather and beautiful location. I think we ate just about every type of
meat available, which is understandable after coming off the Lent Fast.
Life has been pretty quiet, but it’s the perfect pace for
learning to navigate a new city and country. I use the term navigate loosely as I’ve yet to sit in the
drivers seat. It’s coming, so say
a little prayer. I’ve already
started paying extra attention and asking questions about what white coloured
lines mean ; depends if they are dotted or solid;, if you can turn right on a
red – I mean LEFT - no you cannot, unless there’s a yield sign; and most
importantly, how to tell if a cop is asking for a bribe and how to deal with it
- everyone has their own tactics from low balling to outright refusal peppered
with threats of reporting them… Not comfortable with any of these so I’ll cross
that bridge when I get to it. Side Note: they are cracking down on bribes so it’s
not as common as it once was.
Climbing out of a Lamborghini (I think...) |
We recently had the pleasure of attending a very nice event
to mark the grand opening of a residential and business complex developed by
Pete’s cousin’s father. It was a
great night with fantastic food, wine and also a few fancy cars you could
pretend to own for minute. We took
a great (?) photo of me pretending to be famous. There was a comedian who MCd the night, and was
hilarious. He made some pretty
bold (racially charged) comments but pulled it off so well everyone in the room
was in tears. In one part he
mentioned the signs the taxi drivers use, so they don’t have to stop and ask
people where they want to go. For
those of you who aren’t familiar with Taxis in South Africa, they are basically
VW like vans that shoot around the city driving like maniacs trying to pile as
many people in their vehicles as they can to maximize each trips potential
income. You can get from Central
Johannesburg to Soweto for about 5Rand, but I’m telling you, you take your life
in your hands if you get inside.
Mostly it’s cheap transportation for the black population to get to the
city from the townships and back again.
I’ll see if I can take a photo of one so you get the full picture, but
in the meantime if you want to see one Google image ‘South African Taxi’. Anyway, so they use hand signs to help
determine where people want to go.
The comic show us a few destination signs and then showed us signs for ‘Woman’,
‘Place to Drink’ etc, so you could effectively leave there and sign that you
want to find a woman and go to town.
I don’t know what I was thinking but I thought it would be a good
talking point when speaking to a friends maid the following weekend. I guess I
thought it would show how quickly I was absorbing the African culture, so I
showed her the sign for woman, as in we are ‘Woman’. She looked a bit shocked at first and then burst out
laughing. As most of you probably
guessed and I somehow missed, I now understand that the sign we learned refers
to a woman in a certain profession… not all women. Every time she saw me after that she would laugh and give me
the sign for woman. She probably
fondly remembers me as the Lady of the Night from Canada.
Days have been filled with coffees, lunches, seeing the
city, and funny little scenarios that make life pretty enjoyable. Overall it’s really not that different
from any other metropolitan city – lots of drivers, malls, gyms, and everyone
trying to make a buck. The
differences are small but poignant as you are met with both a staggering
disparity between the rich and poor, and the meeting of what feels like a
hundred cultures in a suburban sprawl.
Every stop light (or Robot as they call them here) there’s at least one
or two people selling cheap goods like cell phone chargers, or ear muffs, and
sometimes it’s a person begging for change who’s situation would make most of
those asking for spare change in North America look like they’ve had a pretty
good life. I know that’s not the case,
but there seems to be a huge difference between the poorest in North America
and Africa, which caught me off guard and shouldn’t have.
The city is filled with little signs of positivity. It's more touching than you realize when you stumble upon a glimmer of hope or humor - substance in the midst of dirt and grim. We went to a fantastic market in Central Johannesburg called Market on Main (marketonmain.co.za) showcasing Joburg designers, jewelers, clothing, leather, food, and most importantly mojitos. You walk in off a street that mixes old with new, dirt with shine, safe with the underlying feeling that it might not be 100% safe after dark. Pete's cousin's cousins (Greeks ;) have a stall there with some amazing jewelery so it was great to see such a thriving market tied directly to family. The lower floor was. all. food. So amazing. You can have a drink and wander around sampling everything from bagels, crepes, salads, candies, cupcakes, meat rolls to vegan fare. While walking back to the car we found a big chalk board on the street where kids (and kids at heart) can write what they want to do before they die. There were some pretty funny responses that might not show up in the photo, but as I walked away I was struck by that phrase: Before I die... Takes on a much more somber meaning when you realize how many kids are living with HIV in SA (330,000 in 2009 according to avert.org), how many kids face extreme violence every day, and more simply put how many kids can't afford the luxury to be kids in South Africa. It was interesting to see what was on this board: Before I die I want to: Visit The Moon, Play Like Messi, Love, Bee a Mommy, See Messi... Actually there were a LOT of references to Football...
Another situation that take you by surprise (initially) are
things that put you on ‘African Time’. African Time seems to be very laid back
from what I gather so far, and is not necessarily tied to race. It’s a pace of life that allows for
socializing while working – what looks like a team meeting is often just a gab
session so you can go and interrupt if you need help; it allows for general
confusion – a lot of staff don’t seems to know what they are talking about and
you get misinformation all the time; it allows for disorganization – IE. going
to a major grocery store and paying with a larger bill (the equivalent to 10GBP)
and having to wait for change to be brought to the till. This in particular bothered me at
first. It’s not the fact that they
don’t have enough change that surprising, it’s the relaxed attitude that’s
taken to getting you your change back. The interaction goes something like
this: ‘Do you have smaller bill? I don’t have change’ then they wait for a few
minutes looking around the store hoping that someone might appear with change.
‘Hey, psst *waves your 100R note at the cashier one till over* do you have
change?’ They do not. More
waiting. A few shrugs and hopeless
looks later, the bag clerk, who has also been watching the helpless plight of
her co-worker the whole time, finally pulls a little pouch out of her bra and
hands us the change. You can’t get
frustrated watching it, because it doesn’t really do much besides raise your
blood pressure. But it is hard to
hold your tongue and not make helpful suggestions like ‘Maybe pick up the phone
and call your manager to bring you change?’
Architecture in Johannesburg, a mix of contemporary and cultural |
These little things can certainly slow you down but it’s all
part of the experience and life here.
Overall people have been lovely.
One of the great things I’ve come across is the small attention to
detail when it comes to beverages.
If you want milk with your coffee they ask if you want cold or hot
milk. If your drink comes with a
straw they leave the paper sleeve on the portion of the straw you drink from so
nothing but your own lips touches the straw. They bring you ice to put in your white wine (if that’s how you
role) without having to be asked.
It’s a small thing that I’ve come to love.
It’s only really gone wrong once – a restaurant in a small
village called Clarens, about 3 hrs outside of Johannesburg. I requested a Dirty Gin Martini. It’s basically Gin and a hint of olive
brine. The bartender didn’t know
how to make it so the server asked me to go to the bar. I really appreciated that he
asked instead of guessing so I sauntered up to the bar with pride, ready to
explain how to make this classic beverage.
Martini Class 101: I told him that it involved 2 shots of
gin and a small pour of olive juice.
He looked a bit confused and asked if it went in the glass. ‘Ok,’ I thought, ‘let’s start more
basic.’ ‘Do you have a martini glass?’ He got one down from the bar. ‘Martini shaker
filled with ice?’ So far so good.
I instructed him to pour gin and olive juice in shaker, shake and pour
in glass. Pretty satisfied with my
teaching skills I went back to the table.
After about 5 minutes I heard that magical sound of ice rattling in the
martini shaker. Then more
shaking. And more. I think he shook that thing for about
10 minutes straight. Finally the
drink is placed before me and my jaw dropped. I’ve included a picture so you can see the creative
concoction he made. The pink
sugared rim is adorned with a lemon and olive, a crown on the sewer water in
the glass below. How awesome is
that. It was a small lesson that
there is no such thing as too much detail when explaining how to make a drink.
I wiped the rim as much as I could and was actually surprised that it didn’t
taste as bad as it looked. Thank
goodness.
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